Namaste Y'all

Here's my yoga wish list. 
I love Stella McCartney for Adidas. 

Mainly, I love this t-shirt. It is SO me. 

Namaste Y'all by dishydecorator

Adidas by Stella McCartney long top
$150 - net-a-porter.com

Switchback Yoga Pants
$68 - anthropologie.com

Adidas by Stella McCartney ballet flat
$100 - couture.zappos.com

Adidas by Stella McCartney yoga bag
$70 - couture.zappos.com

Nixon | 42-20 Chrono stainless steel watch |
$450 - net-a-porter.com

ADIDAS BY STELLA McCARTNEY Yoga Mat
£45 - harrods.com

Shortcut Southern Green Beans

When I was growing up, we would get fresh green beans from the farmers at the local courthouse square or from my grandparents' garden. My mom, grandmother (Nanny), and I spent lots of evenings outside in old Adirondack chairs, "breakin' and stringin' beans" and swatting off mosquitoes. To prepare, my mom would fry up minced onion and a piece of bacon in the pot, then add the green beans and water. Talking about some good green beans! Everything's better with bacon right?

I don't always have time to go through the whole stringin' and breakin' process, so through the years, I've found a pretty close substitute with canned green beans. YES. Canned whole green beans. You have to use whole. Don't get the cut green beans. Or the French-cut kind. Yuck. Those are for the soupy green bean casseroles.

Shortcut Southern Green Beans

Ingredients:

2 cans of Del Monte FreshCut Whole Green Beans (1 can drained)

1 tablespoon finely minced onion

1 piece of smoked bacon, cut into 4 pieces

Salt to taste

Directions:

In a medium pot, over medium-low heat, add bacon pieces and saute for a few minutes. They don't have to be totally done. Be careful so it doesn't burn. Flip bacon pieces and add onion. Saute until onion is translucent. 

Add both cans of green beans. Cook for 10-15 minutes or until bubbling slightly. You can remove the bacon or leave it in to serve. Salt to taste.

Parenting and Such

Phewww. I had a rough Mommy day yesterday. I'm not sure what was going on with my youngest (Sassypants), but I ended up in tears on the drive to school. 


Her behavior is greatly affected by the foods she eats. If she eats the foods she allergic to, she gets really whiny and defiant. She's getting to bed at a decent time, so I feel she's not overly tired. I need to double check with her school to see if she's getting some sort of corn syrup or food dyes. 


The trouble I run into is I can be a "reactionary" parent. In other words, the more my kids try to gain control, the more aggressive I get. Not in a violent or physical way, but I raise my voice and yes, often act as childish as they do. I think we both feel so out of control at that point that nothing fixes the situation. 


I had to pull out a wonderful parenting book yesterday and re-read some chapters.

Are you a parent and have threatened, given time-outs, punished, spanked, bribed, yelled, etc. and aren't getting positive results? Do you feel defeated after an hour of struggling to keep your child in a 5 minute time-out? 

Or have you done like I did yesterday?---yelled and threatened, knowing that nothing positive came out of it. If so, I highly recommend this book. 

The author, Amy McCready is the founder of Positive Parenting Solutions, Inc. and gives incredibly empowering tips on how to regain a sense of peace between parent and child. 

The first chapter explains how our societal and family changes have caused parenting styles to change. Have you ever said, "When I was a kid, I just got "the look" and knew I better do what my mom said." It's not that easy anymore.

Here's a rundown of the chapter titles:

1. Something’s Not Working
2. Kids are People, Too
3. Are You Making Your Child’s Behavior Worse?
4. Bringing Out the Best in Your Child
5. The Power and the Struggle (and Some Solutions)
6. Using What You Can Control to Manage What You Can’t
7. The Positive Side of Misbehavior (Learning Life’s Lessons)
8. The Four Mistaken Goals of Misbehavior
9. Sibling Rivalry
10. Bringing Everyone Together
11. Taking the Toolbox Home

I love that the author suggests that we treat our children with respect. So much of the behavior solutions are temporary on "Super Nanny" and similar tv shows. I remember seeing where the nanny told a misbehaving child that she was naughty and to sit in the "naughty spot". 

Is that really constructive? I tried the whole time-out thing many times and it didn't work. Instead I felt like my children believed that they were naughty and need to continue that type of behavior. After all, they had the title of "naughty" to live up to.

This morning was much better. I got the girls up in plenty of time to spend some one-on-time with each of them. Parenting......the toughest job on Earth.

Enough of the intense stuff. LOL

My girls love this sing along book and CD by Lisa Loeb. It's titled Lisa Loeb's Silly Sing-Along: The Disappointing Pancake and Other Zany Songs

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Silly Sing-Along: The Disappointing Pancake and Other Zany Songs

• Our favorite songs are "The Disappointing Pancake" and "A Co Di By Doze (A Cold in My Nose)".
• My only complaints: On the song "Found a Peanut", she talks about choking on a peanut, dying, she went to heaven, and was turned away. She said she "went the other way". Luckily she says she wakes up from a dream. Catchy tune, but I usually skip this song.
• "Sippin' Cider" talks about how a boy and girl where sitting cheek to cheek sipping cider. Something happens and the straw slips and then they were "lip to lip". Then she says that got her a mother-in-law and a bunch of kids that call her "Ma". I skip this song too.

Hope everyone is having a fantastic Wednesday!

Hearty Three-Cheese Lasagna

First off, this recipe isn't "exact". The amount of sauce you'll use depends on how big your pan is or whether you divide it into two pans. Remember to keep an eye on the amount of sauce you have while you're layering.  The first time I made this, I made it with 1/2 the sauce and ran out on the last layer. With this recipe, I sometimes will have a little left over. Put it in a freezer box and you'll have a nice spaghetti sauce for later!

Secondly, this is a time-consuming recipe. This lasagna is really a labor of love. You can make the sauce the day before ( I always do), then layer the ingredients the next morning, and bake that night. 

There's carrots and spinach in it, but don't let it throw you off. 

The carrots are in the sauce and practically unnoticeable.
Shhhhh. I'm always looking for ways to sneak in some veggies.

Hearty Three-Cheese Lasagna

Ingredients:

Sauce

• 2 tablespoons olive oil
• 2 cups finely chopped onions
• 1 cup finely chopped peeled carrots
• 4 tablespoons minced garlic
• 16 ounces lean ground beef
• 12 ounces spicy Italian sausages, casings removed (i.e. squeeze the meat out of the tube. hehe)
• (2) 28-ounce cans crushed tomatoes with added puree
• 1/2 cup tomato paste
• 1/2 cup chopped fresh basil
• 2 tablespoons dried oregano
• 2 tablespoons light brown sugar
• 1 teaspoon dried crushed red pepper

2 bay leaves

Lasagna

• Lasagna noodles (depending on pan size and if you are dividing into 2 containers-about 9-15 noodles)

(2) 15-ounce containers part-skim ricotta cheese

• 1.5 cups grated Parmesan cheese
• 1 10-ounce package frozen chopped spinach, thawed, drained, thoroughly squeezed dry with paper towels
• 2 large eggs

5 cups grated mozzarella cheese

Directions:

Sauce

In a heavy large saucepan over medium heat, heat olive oil. Add onion, carrots and garlic; sauté until softened, about 10-12 minutes. Add beef and sausages to pan. Saute until thoroughly cooked, breaking up meat with back of spoon (approximately 7-10 minutes).

Add remaining sauce ingredients. Cover and simmer until flavors blend and sauce thickens, stirring occasionally, about 30 minutes. Discard bay leaves. Cool.

Lasagna

• Preheat oven to 350°F. 
• Cook noodles according to package directions in large pot of boiling salted water until almost tender. Drain and cover with cold water.
• Combine ricotta and 1cup Parmesan cheese in a medium bowl. Mix in spinach. Season to taste with salt and pepper. Mix in eggs.
• Drain pasta and pat dry. Spread about 1 cup sauce over bottom of glass baking dish (13x9-inch or larger). 

• Place 3-4 noodles over sauce, overlapping to fit.

• Spread half of ricotta-spinach mixture evenly over noodles. 

• Sprinkle 2 cups mozzarella cheese evenly over ricotta-spinach mixture. 

• Spoon 1 1/2 cups sauce over cheese, spreading with spatula to cover. 

• Repeat layering with noodles, ricotta-spinach mixture (reserve some if you want to dollop it on top), mozzarella and sauce. 
• Arrange remaining noodles over sauce.
• Spread remaining sauce over noodles. 
• Sprinkle remaining mozzarella cheese and Parmesan cheese evenly over lasagna. Lightly pat down with your hand to even the mixture.
• If desired, put a few dollops of the ricotta-spinach mixture on the top.

• (Can be prepared up to 1 day ahead. Cover tightly with plastic wrap and refrigerate.) 
• Cover baking dish with aluminum foil, being careful to slightly "tent" foil so that melted cheese won't stick to it.
• Bake lasagna 40 minutes; uncover and bake until hot and bubbly, about 40 -50 minutes. 
• Let lasagna stand 15 minutes before serving.

**You really could divide this recipe into two pans. I usually do this because by night 2, we're sick of lasagna. This is A LOT of lasagna, especially for a small family. Just set out two pans and divide it as you go. Measurements do not have to be exact!

You can see here that I divided it up between 2 pans.
One for dinner and one to share or freeze.

Throw on more mozzarella if you like. Nobody's looking;-)

Ivanka Trump Shoes

Did y'all know that Ivanka Trump now has a shoe and handbag line? 

I was looking online at Bloomingdale's shoes, and spotted her brand. 

Who would've thunk it? Pretty cute stuff!

Ivanka Trump "Jaffer" Boots

OBSESSED. 

Ivanka Trump Magnoli Flat

These got great reviews and love this color!

Ivanka Trump "Pinkette" Heel

Ahhh. Love the calf-hair leopard print. Perfect height.

Ivanka Trump "Abella" Boot

I like that these are simple. No zippers or buckles.

I don't like the purses because she made the same mistake Jessica Simpson did. 

She put her name all over the bag. And on shiny hardware. 

Ugh. 

The styles aren't bad, but no one wants to see Jess or Ivanka's name emblazoned for the world to see.  

Have you fashionistas tried any of her shoes? 

How's the quality?